Before I fell pregnant, I have never ever heard of a babymoon.
Once pregnant through mother forums, I started hearing about a babymoon and had to google it because I had no idea what it meant. Then I came across the below definition
a relaxing or romantic holiday taken by parents-to-be before their baby is born.
At first I thought the concept was ridiculous but then as the months of pregnancy went on, I started realising things like “this is the last period in our lives for a while where it’s just me and my partner”.
And as the months went on, the baby started consuming my life! Everything I did was around the baby. Looking at what products I need to buy for baby, going to baby stores, researching online, looking into information around labour, what I can and can’t do whilst pregnant and so on and so forth.
The baby had already consumed both of our lives and the baby hasn’t even arrived yet.
The concept of the babymoon started to make sense.
It was an opportunity for me and my partner to be together. Just the two of us. Away from everything baby related.
I thought for our relationship, it was the perfect thing we could do.
Now I know not a lot of people are in the financial position to do something like this but if you can, I found it one of the most amazing things we could have done.
Now upon researching taking a babymoon, I was surprised to see that there were hotels and resorts out there that actually have babymoon packages! One of the many examples below:
Midweek Babymoon… …Stay 2 nights, indulge 1 evening Dining on the Edge dinner for two, 1 full body pregnancy massage for mum to be !! ……. $1455 per couple
Surrender to complete relaxation before your new baby arrives with a babymoon. STAY 2 nights in a Luxury Suite overlooking the rain forest and ocean . Private DINING on the Edge one evening 3 course chefs menu dinner for two dinner for two includes welcome beverage, surrender, one hour full body pregnancy massage for mother to be. Gourmet Breakfast supplies, home blend toasted muesli, premium yogurt, smoked salmon, eggs, bread, muffins, medium roast plunger coffee, tea, herbal tea, fruit juice, mineral water, sparkling wine, cheese, roasted mixed nuts and a sweet treat !!! sparkling wine. * ( Dining on the Edge may also be served as a private lunch) A babymoon less than an hours drive from Sydney CBD is perfect for parents to enjoy a little time out ……. before baby arrives……!!!
Now for $1455 for 2 nights, we were not prepared to pay.
So I just looked at it as a weekend getaway and looked at hotels/resorts at a cheaper price.
I think something to take into account when booking your babymoon is how far along the pregnancy you should book it especially if your babymoon involves flying. There are many airlines that don’t allow women after a certain point in their pregnancy to fly. Most airlines have a policy of not allowing women to fly anywhere between 32-37 weeks. This is just due to the probability of you going into labour and airplanes not equipped to deliver a baby.
Secondly is taking into account that the further along the pregnancy you are, the more uncomfortable you tend to get and also the more tired you get, so if you are planning a babymoon with the idea of doing some activities, then you don’t want to leave going so late in your pregnancy that you’re too tired.
My suggestion would be to go when you are in your second trimester. This as mentioned in my previous post, is the most energetic and well you will feel out of all three trimesters (every woman is different but this is usually the case).
We went away when I was 6 month pregnant and for me it was the perfect timing.
Due to cost and timing reasons (my partner couldn’t take too much time off work) we decided to go somewhere where it was within driving distance. Also it was summertime so going somewhere along the coast and in front of the beach was where we wanted to go.
I jumped onto http://www.lastminute.com.au which is great for cheap hotel deals and you can also search per area you are looking at going if you don’t have a particular hotel in mind.
We came across the Crowne Plaza Terrigal http://www.crowneplazaterrigal.com.au/. The location was perfect and it was only 1.5 hr drive from Sydney
We had ocean views and we could hear the rolling of the ocean from our bedroom which was so peaceful and amazing.
We were just across the road from the beach.
At 6 months, I didn’t feel too big to be lying in the sun and getting some much-needed Vitamin D and soaking in the fresh air. I still managed to fit into my one piece swimming costume which was great.
The trip was so good for the both of us. I made a conscientious effort to not talk about the baby too much and really we just focused on each other.
We went out for dinner, we walked along the beach, we lied in bed watching TV, we talked about work and about our friends. We laughed and relaxed and I felt so light. So at ease and at peace and I could see that my partner also felt the same.
I think at times because you do talk about the baby so much, it can create a sense of stress on one or both of you when you start thinking about the things you need to do and buy before the baby arrives, so to have a weekend to make us press pause and just look at each other – that sought of experience is priceless.
We had so much fun and I’m so glad we did it. It really rejuvenated the two of us and reminded us to not forget about each other throughout this amazing journey.
To anyone thinking about taking a babymoon, I can’t highly recommend it more!
It was and remains such a memorable time for the two of us. Actually the three of us… 🙂